Why differently abled looked upon with sympathy??

Considering the fact that differently-abled people have always been looked upon with sympathy ,pity and being helpless since ages now. They have always been categorised in all walks of life. Do they really need sympathy or they just need support??
Being differently-abled always been a matter of sympathy among us. They are always made to feel that they are different from the normal crowd. Why do we stare them so long to make them realize that they are different from us?? Why do we make them feel like an alien in their own nation?? Why can’t we just let them deal with their sufferings as they want to??? Why being pity or to show sympathy is always required by us?? Can’t we understand the pain of not being physically or mentally fit like us?? Can’t we just stop asking how, when and where they got them this disability?

They have a way tough life than we can ever imagine in our entire lifetime. Sufferings are the part of their life and willingly they accept that with smiles. We often categorise them which makes them uncomfortable in their own body. Being trapped inside in their own body is not a easy situation to be in. But they fight as a warrior with the sword of self-confidence. Let them fly cause these people have way more capibilities then any normal being in the world. They have always been an example as few of the legends which make us believe in the concept of never giving up. They might have difficulties in small things of life but they are often ready to make a difference. Why to pull them back just because they are disabled?? Make them feel normal among the normals. Let them deal with their life they wanted too. Helping them is very nice, but the help should be given when asked not then when they are trying to be self_sustainable.

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Love has never been a complete defination of their life as they lack the acceptance factor.

These people have the ability to bring change and make a difference among the entire world. They just need respect and support rather than fake sympathy. Let them believe in themselves by not puting them into the cage of self-bound. They have the fire to do something to make their not so perfect life atleast worth remembering.

Your sympathy can break someone’s motivation. God has made us all but few are snatched some abilities only to discover the truely meaning of life. Life would never be a fairy tale for such people but atleast let them their tale to be worth listening. Stop considering being differently-abled as an illness, because its the way their life is and making someone’s life a illness kills that person a little by each passing day.

Think about the content and try to ask yourself are we doing right to put them into a category rather considering them the crowd. They got to deal with way more chaos by each passing day. Let them live and fly with their wings of courage and determination.

Keep reading and supporting.

~Ishika

Feminism-The real meaning!

Well, feminism term has a great meaning in our society nowadays, several protests, marches, procession has been conducted all around the globe in order to save the equal rights of the gender. This word clearly came into action to save the gender equality worldwide. Although largely originating in the West, feminism is manifested worldwide and is represented by various institutions committed to activity on behalf of women’s right and interests. As the history suggest this term was used for the upliftment and equality of women in the society as they were not treated with equal importance as men did. My mere question is that when did the word which included for saving rights became an evil practice against the society?? But the sad part is feminism which was clearly based on gender equality of both the genders became the weapon to oppress each other by certain ways of disagreement. It has lost its real meaning in the crowd of jealousy, greed, and insecurities.

Feminism represents a broad spectrum of feminisms that emphasize differences between women and men. This approach arose in the 1980s and 1990s in efforts to revalue qualities traditionally devalued as “feminine”—such as subjectivity, caring, feeling, or empathy. This approach identifies bias in science and technology by seeing what has been left out from feminine perspectives—sometimes expressed as “women’s ways of knowing.” Difference feminisms have been criticized as being essentialist. Difference feminism tends to romanticize traditional femininity and masculinity and to reinforce conventional stereotypes. This approach fails to take into account that women and men across classes and cultures hold many different perspectives and kills the peace between both the genders now. There are certain cases or happenings in our country which are being biased on genders. Feminism was approached truly for the sake of togetherness but it is building differences among the section of society.

Feminism used to be about women getting the same rights as men, such as the right to vote and equal pay at work.
Now feminism is a movement full of women who seem to think that their ability to push a baby out of their vagina entitles them to bigger and better than everything. I myself being a women understand the ups and downs we had to face in the past but certainly, don’t that we would suppress others from our rights.

It is a complex set of ideologies and theories, that at its core seeks to achieve equal social, political, and economic rights for women and men. Feminism refers to a diverse variety of beliefs, ideas, movements, and agendas for action. It refers to any actions, especially organized, that promote changes to society to end patterns that have disadvantaged women. Well, we should try to understand the true meaning and beliefs about feminism and should work according to its real means to make this society a better place.

I hereby request each and everyone reading out there to implement this in your lives and make this world a better place to live!!

~Ishika

Acceptance!!

Well, acceptance is a very common word with deep meaning comprised within it. we tend to accept things in life which are not meant for us. Sometimes in life, you will come across with the path of people who are not ready to accept you as you are, with your flaws, with your perception , with your identity or simply the person you are. My question to everyone out reading this post why the hell do we need acceptance from anybody when we have the capacity to fight alone in the world full of lies? Acceptance comes from your inner soul it massively depends upon things how we tend to take it.. If someone is not comfortable with your presence in their lives walk out with full acceptance that you are way much better than what people have the perception about you. Accept the fact that no one in this entire world can understand you better than you. Not everyone gets acceptance in this society it is us who have the courage to go against all the odds to live life on our conditions.

There will be few people in your lives who will accept you with all their heart. These people are the true meaning of acceptance, love, and support. Rather than dying thousands of deaths every day about your incapability. Start accepting yourself as you are. Because somethings,some people in our lives at different stages comes to make us realise the worth of self-love. Initially, it is very tough to live with the fact that you need to have the acceptance of others just to live your life. But leave the grip of the people who are holding you back and shattering you without your mistake.

Mere acceptance within your own soul will certainly lead you to your real happiness and salvation in life. Stop craving for others and start accepting you. Love yourself and stop believing others blindly because no one except of your parents can love you selflessly… If someone loves you that way accept you the way you are then never let go the hand of that person because he/she is the one who will make efforts to stay with you even when the world will give thousand and lakhs of reason to give up on you!

Acceptance is important but the condition should be favourable to you.. Don’t accept things which would not give you inner satisfaction and avoid being with people who makes you feel unwanted and unacceptable. somewhere down the lane one day or the other people would accept you with the fact that he/she has the courage to change the world with the immense shine and fire. No one in this world has the right to deny being with you just because of their perception and if they do than stop the mere thought to be with them because they would only lead you to darkness!!

~Ishika

Motivation!!

Motivation is the epitome of one’s actions and willingness to reach our goal.Motivation is what causes you to act, whether it is getting a glass of water to reduce thirst or reading a book to gain knowledge. Every single thing has its own motivation within itself. Motivation needs the keen eyes of the beholder to counter action in our favour. There are many people in this world who have done wonders just because of motivation either by their dear ones or by their own inner self. Motivation is a very strong emotion which can lead us to the ladder of success.When we are inspired, excited, getting more than expected results from something we get motivated. Such as its inspiring when you read stories and beliefs of successful people. It’s inspiring when you see someone achieving something great and feeling happy. That’s the way we feel motivated and it helps us to achieve our own goals.

Motivation can be found in our failures too. We should take our failures positively and should have the fire that” I will rise with the power of my innerself”.

Motivation can be found anywhere around. It is certainly not required to watch a youtube video to get self-motivated. Motivation can be the smile of your parents,the strength of your friends or the support from your love. Motivation is clearly not based upon how others inspire us it is truely based how we take things in life. Because the perception of vision we want to possess that only leads us to the path we ensure to travel too.
Motivation in the workplace is one of the most important aspects within an organization. The following study defines motivation and analyzes needs and drives which is the starting point of motivation. Motivation fills you with new ray of hope and help us drive to the destination where we really want to reach!When we are inspired, excited, getting more than expected results from something we get motivated. Such as its inspiring when you read stories and beliefs of successful people. It’s inspiring when you see someone achieving something great and feeling happy. That’s the way we feel motivated and it helps us to achieve our own goals.
The sense of motivation is an impression and cognition that can happen accidentally or any time of the day and night. We get the highest motivation when our sense of purpose connects with our sense of motivation. For example, when you see motivational videos your sense of motivation gets activated. And it starts connecting with sense of purpose. Motivation is clearly the reason behind attaining something that we always intend to have in our lives!

Be self-motivated and try to be away from destructive desires so that you can achieve what you really wish to have!!

Life Satisfaction Or Myth?

We all say that satisfaction is required to do quality work. Are we really satisfied in life? No. We are not once we achieve our goal in lives we further constitute to quest of more. A quest which has no end to its side, a quest which we comprise till eternity. If satisfaction was the case with everybody out there no one would ever had the courage to do something extraordinary in lives. Either it is Einstein or Newton or Mahendra Singh Dhoni’s winning shot in world cup everything need eagerness or else say hunger to comprise more out of the opportunities.Life satisfaction is a multidimensional concept related to psychological and environmental life conditions. Each one of us are participating to be an aspirant of satisfaction to attain our goals in our respective lives.
Satisfaction in life does not lie in the length of days, but in the use we make of them. A man may live long yet may get little from life. Thus satisfaction in life does not depend on number of years, but on will we have within ourselves. Satisfaction can be anything it can be the smile of a beggar, it can be the kiss of your lover, or it can be a conversation with your parents,it could also be living memories with your pals. So satisfaction is not dependent upon your professional success sometimes it is more often the relationships we build which lasts long with us no matter how harsh the life is. Life satisfaction is required to attain salvation, to have no regrets in our lives. The seed which we grow only nurture with the water and nutrition which we provide them. Same is the case with life satisfaction we need sheer dedication and focused mind to gain what we dream to be ours.

In the hustle and bustle of our lives our satisfaction factor is at risk now. I would love to state that in life satisfaction is essential to live a worth and happy life. Do something which you really wish to do!

Other side of satisfaction could be togetherness with your loved ones,it can be felt in the voice of your love, in the touch of your beloved, or in the aroma of motherhood,or in the happiness of your family. Satisfaction can be a vital synonym for our life and it comprises the fire to work for the mere success or else say mere happiness which we have forgetten somewhere in the race of our busy lives. Understand the real meaning of satisfaction rather than having false hopes.

Always remember in the quest of becoming the superior never loose the one who makes your life worth living. Satisfaction has various aspects to deal with patience and focus than you would feel the difference within you!

~Ishika

DREAMS

The word dream is surely infinite and glorifies a person’s life and keeps them alive everyday. It is the motivation to keep going even under harsh circumstances. Each one of us need hope in our lives and indeed dreams are those hopes for which we are ready to sigh in the furnace of hard work and dedication.Every person has a dream of his own, which he thinks will come true someday and miraculously make his life fanciful and thrilling. Dreams are like those stars which are far from our reach but we constitute the passion to have it once in our lifetime. A person who has a cornucopia of dreams always has a cheerful life because dreams give him courage and hope. Dreams can be of several types either it is a dream to be the most successful person in the world or either it can be holding your love tighter in nights. Every dream has its own story and believes.

Dreams can be wild, sweet, friendly and unlimited because the more of these dreams you have, the more you grow creative. Dreams to be successful,dreams to be famous, dreams to be loved by your beloved. Every dream indeed is special in its own way. Muffling with dreams makes you way much imaginative and creative than before. Every dream has a truth behind it as the person believes his dream will come true and when you believe in it, it has to be true. Dreams should be fascinating and even has the power to do wonders in your life. Dreams sometimes plays the role of invader to awaken our sleeping desires. Dreaming is like climbing a mountain. You can dream and dream until your imagination runs wild and finally you will reach the peak or your dream will come true for you. Dream is the epitome of our soul either it is of making passionate love to your partner or to have the topscore in your cards each dream keep us ready to fight with the circumstances we have to face in our respective lives. Dreams can bring happiness in your life as you forget your tears and hope for the best. Dreaming is the indispensable guide to happiness.
Dreams of the conscious mind are more important than the dreams of the subconscious mind. It is essential to understand the difference between the two. It is the time when you realise things with open eyes and get courage to bring some changes in your respective lives.A person who is hard working but has no dreams in life is comparatively less successful that the person who is hard working and an avid dreamer at the same time. Dreams are your backbone, you can be successful without a dream but you cannot be happy without it. Because he won’t have the power and enthusiasm to rule the world with the fire within them.
It is essential for every individual to dream; whether it’s big or small. Once your small dreams start coming true, you will start dreaming big as a result of both habit and practice.

Follow your dreams wild,sweet,big,small or of any sort of kind just believe in the magic of dreams and see the change you could bring in your lives!!

~Ishika

Time the Game_changer!!

As we all know time is the biggest game changer in our lives. Time can either destroy us or makes our life worth living. Being in a world where every single thing is a marathon time is the key to success. Each one of us gets the same amount of time everyday but the diffrence is clearly visible some of us make the most out of it and few of us waste it on useless stuffs. as we say “Time will show”.so the person who is utilising every single moment of time is obviously likely to be much more happier than the person who is being lazy and not able to manage the precious time.As said“Time management is not a peripheral activity or skill. It is the core skill upon which everything else in life depends.“ — Brian Tracy

Truely, our lives depends of time. In our respective lives we all get the same amount of time to achieve something, to make our life worth,to gain respect,to make our parents proud. It depends upon us how we are dealing with the time. Time stops for none. It is the truth of life that we have to pace with time to reach the destination of success,self-confidence and most importantly a worth place in our society.
Somewhere dawn the lane each one us know the value of time in our life but only few of us are ready to impliment its importance and work accordingly. I would like to say that it is better to understand the importance rather than facing harsh consequences from this cruel society.The respect what you want in future would certainly come from the hectic time management you nurture today! Adopt a time management where you can maintain the time in such a way that nothing is left out and more precisely you can live your life to its fullest.

I truely believe hardwork is the key to success but time is the only path which can lead you to it..

-Ishika

SelfRespect

SelfRespect is a term which should be in top in our priority lists in life. Nothing is more important than your own respect. I completely understand that our family,our work,our love,our friends,our social life everything is precious to us but not in the price of self Respect. It is not merely an expression but it is our identity,our dignity which makes our lives worth living. In life there would be certain circumstances where you have to choose between your selfrespect or love. I would love to tell you that don’t think for a fraction of second and go with selfrespect because unless you don’t love your soul you wouldn’t be able to justify to your love life. There are some people who sacrifice there respect just to be with someone in their life. But a question arises “Is this love or the defination of crushing your confidence?? Well the answer lies within the silence! Whether it is women or men respect yourself so that you can respect others. Because unless you don’t love your integrity you won’t be able to respect others dignity.

Falling in love is special but loosing your self Respect is the biggest crime you could ever commit. If your love loves you at the stake of your dignity than it is not love just a matter of status in the society. Fight your own battle with the sword of Selfobsession,love for you and ofcourse self respect! As we all know beauty lies within the eye of the beholder! It is upon you to just feel right about yourself express yourself,understand the fire you have burning within you. Specially the message is to you girls out there who are facing domestic violence,their thoughts are being trashed,their soul is being scratched by their respective life partners. I know it is easy to say but 100 times difficult to implement but if you will once stand for yourself with all your courage then no men in this entire world has the power to bring your dignity down. We as a country where goddess are being worshiped with full faith and energy. Deep down everyone knows a women who gives birth to a new life,a women who can do anything for her family, A women who could sacrifice anything just for one smile of her kids and beloved. Just imagine when this women would stand out for her self respect and dreams what miracles she could do,what magic she could create,what power she has stored in her soul!

It is a message for everyone irrespective of gender,caste,creed,race! Live your life with Self_respect and dignity!! We only get our lives for once why not make it worth living…

Love

Love has hundreds and thousands of definations..but do we really know what love is?? Love is the satisfaction which we get from the other person’s smile,love is not always togetherness sometimes it is the beauty of being apart from each other still loving each other with all our heart! In today’s world love has changed its meaning its morals,its beauty,its respect.because love is now a matter of status that one has a lover to showoff to this world that my life is the most happening and happy one.but somewhere down the lane we all know that being in love and pretending in love are poles apart to each other. Love has always been an epitome of purity but now it has only became a desire to satisfy our egos. I agree love can’t be defined in words,it is the feeling what makes us alive,worthliving. Love is not always being with each other sometimes it is letting them go for their happiness.

Lover’s love is essential indeed but the love we get from our parents is the most pure form of love which can be clearly visible in their actions.

Lastly,i would like to conclude that believe in the magic of love and see how your life is changed for good, Help those who are in need,live for your country,Do something worth with your life because watching a single person smiling because of you will give you the satisfaction and purest form of love!!

“Dignity”

Dignity is a term which we as a human being want it to be our adjective! A person works with all his soul to gain dignity in this big world. It not only gives self respect but makes this world a better place to be in..we should always work to earn dignity not to beg for it.. because the thing that we earn gives us immense pleasure and on the other side asking for respect makes us loose even the self confidence which we had in ourselves. I may sound like a feminist to you but a women’s dignity is her biggest jewellery. Those cruel men who tries really hard to take her dignity by various methods. Either it is physically assaulting her or by violence these men are the devils of this earth and as we all know devils are not acceptable on this earth from centuries. So grow up respect women mentally and physically both. A life without dignity is like a empty matchbox no matter how capable you are but unless you don’t have the matchstick to rub against your soul to bring mere confidence within you. A confidence to rule this world to achieve your dreams,to be the person you admire,to bring some change to our judgemental society.. Dignity is the fruit of believing in the term that “you can”. Always remember you are your greatest saviour and your best buddy as well.. Live with dignity always walk away with your head held as high as your thoughts and doings. Because “karma” is the ultimate examiner .Who would mark your future according to your doings and perception of vision for others!!

Love your self and follow your heart!